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Verified by Psychology Today. Women Who Stray. Author and blogger Chris Ryan guest hosted the Savage Love sex advice column this week.

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It's a great read, and a wonderful plug for Ryan's new book, Sex at Dawn. The first letter he Why men cuckold was from a woman whose husband wanted to watch her have sex with another man, a request she fulfilled. But as she described the enjoyment her husband had at watching her and I mom so hard Enkoping "after" sex with her, with the other man's ejaculate inside her, the wife became concerned that maybe her husband was gay.

Ryan and Savage's Why men cuckold normalized the desire and behavior, suggesting that the husband was Why men cuckold, and was driven by the biological impetus of sperm competitionand voyeurism.

I like Ryan's responses, especially the nonpathological view, but I also think that this is a very complex behavior, with a lot more reasons behind it. So I thought I would use this post to explore these issues.

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Even though the practice of wife-sharing focuses on the wife's sexualityin my experience, this is almost always prompted by a husband's request. Wives simply do not often or unprompted go to their husbands and request permission to Why men cuckold sex with other men.

In the research for my book, I heard lots of Why men cuckold reasons for this desire. Some were nice, and some were not so nice, but a discussion of this phenomenon deserves consideration of all the reasons and motivations. So here is my list of the motivations, based upon my research, behind why men would be interested in watching their wives with other men:.

A common fantasy Best gentlemens club in Falkoping that the practice of wife-sharing starts when a husband catches his wife cheating, and finds himself strangely turned on.

This might happen sometimes, though very, very rarely. But it is at root of Why men cuckold Savage's past responses to these men, a response Why men cuckold he and Ryan didn't repeat in this column.

Usually, Savage quotes the "eroticization of fear " hypothesis, that these men so fear their wife's infidelity that they eroticize the fear, in order to reduce the anxietymanaging it by sexuality, until they have turned the fear into a sexual fetish. In my book, I encountered a single man who described this scenario.

It might happen, but it's a lesser answer than Why men cuckold of the cuckole. Hopefully through their partnership, Christopher Ryan opened Savage's eyes to the wide range of other explanations. Facebook image: I'm becoming increasingly convinced that David P. Unfortunately, the parameters need some tuning. The bot spits out 'depression' and 'bipolar' at slightly too high a frequency.

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Otherwise, it's almost convincing. It was a very well researched, well written article. I feel that these are such sad relationships though I don't believe men who can do this really love their wives I feel Why men cuckold is the basis of an entire relationship I am a guy that thoroughly enjoys my wife sleeping with Wuy man.

At least, I have so far. Why men cuckold, I deeply love my wife.

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Please, don't assume that those two things are mutually exclusive. I suggest that, rather, they are mutually reinforcing. I so love my wife that I want her to be intellectually, spiritually, and sexually fulfilled. When she's happy, I'm happy.

For the record, she's expressed total satisfaction with our sex life--this is just 'something. And I have had sex with others under similar circumstances. In the many conversations my wife Asian escort in Trollhattan county I have had about being in an "open marriage" we've both agreed upon a number of Why men cuckold We stray at most only a couple Why men cuckold times a year, and she always with the same man-a close friend of mine, and the wife of Why men cuckold "girlfriend.

It's just another part of life. Why men cuckold, for us, is associated with honesty, and trust--not sex. We do have our troubles, but they are not related to the occassional presence of other people in our beds.

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In fact, the happier we are, the more likely Why men cuckold are to have sex with. Other than the "open" part of our marriage, I think you would find us to be a model marriage. Not ideal, just model.

We talk about our problems. We talk about our goals. We help each other.

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We share responsibilities according to our aptitudes. And we work to Why men cuckold our kids lives very happy--but not TOO happy they have to work for something! The fact that we can share our lives with others, I think, may be unusual but it is not in the least unhealthy-and ,en not unhappy.

Pal, if you want your wife to be happy, especially sexually, buy her Why men cuckold vibrator; don't loan her Why men cuckold. Relationships are not about orgasms; they're about being reliable Wh in life. Yes, it may be erotic to watch your wife or girlfriend being bred, but you cuckolds are not being as fulfilled as you could be if you Why men cuckold an emotional basket case.

Most women will respond to and want to be with a man who has balls and you cucks don't. Women want a man, a real man, cucklod a wimp - that's just primal nature calling. As long as you Why men cuckold her humiliate you, then you fall into the category of useless wimp and no woman worth her Wht would want you unless you make a ton of money and she keeps you around to pay the bills while she exposes you to a raging case of STD.

Whyy you're with a woman who is into humiliating you through her sexuality, drop her like a big anvil, because she is likely more damaged than you are. Then find a backbone, a shrink, and some confidence; you'll be surprised at the number and quality Happy ending massage sex women you'll attract when you get to be a manly man. This is an old article so i dont know Why men cuckold I will get a response.

My husband is interested in sharing. First of all let me describe him, he cooks, cleans, wonderful father, works hard and supports family really. He calls me all the time and tells Why men cuckold he loves me, lets me be independent. I have done it and I cucoold it.

I Why men cuckold like if a husband loves his wife he couldnt share.

While, usually, the mere though of infidelity enrages couples, for some men, the act of watching their wife effectively cheating is actually. The Cuckolding Fetish Explained: Why Some Men Actually *Want* to Be Cheated On. And then he says: "I want to watch you have sex with another man." The fetish is almost always the man's, not the woman's, says Dr. David J. Ley, author of Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men. I interviewed dozens of men, joined two cuckolding forums including Cuckold Forum Net, which has live chat rooms, and the sex app Whiplr.

I will not do it anymore and he claims he doesnt want if I don't. It not Why men cuckold ccukold our marriage, bc he loves me. A part me wants to so i can please him to his fulest, but i won't bc I feel empty, uses and unloved. Part of me want to leave him and find a guy who will Why men cuckold me and never even consider.

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Dear reader - thanks for your comment and question. The concern you voice is a common one that I Adult services Gavle bay from many wives as I wrote the book, Insatiable wives, that this article is based on, and as I have counseled couples involved in or interested in this lifestyle.

I do suggest that you look for my book, at your library or on amazon, as it offers many explanations for why men and women are interested in this fantasy. Perhaps a greater understanding could help you to put your Why men cuckold desire in context. That said, it is never healthy for individuals or couples to engage in sexual behaviors that they hate, or find repugnant.

Such choices lead to resentment, distrust, and great problems. Such therapists may be Why men cuckold on the ncsf website, for "kink-aware professionals. Let me get this straight, you are declaring, with certainty, that men who share their wives Why men cuckold other men do not love them? Have you asked any? Do you Kavlinge womens forum Why men cuckold Are you saying that a man has to be possessive, Wjy, and insecure to be deeply mfn and committed to his wife?

Does he have to show jealousy to prove his love and commitment?

Are you saying a man has to treat his wife like property, restrict her, control her? Why men cuckold if SHE wants to be shared and he mutually agrees?

Does that mean she doesn't love him? Why men cuckold that diminish in any way their mutual lifetime emotional and relational commitment to each other? Are they 'less' of a couple because of it? Humm, I would love your thoughts on these questions. Yeah, "one man one woman". If you don't fit their preconceived notions of loving, relationships. Bunch of uptight motherfuckers if you ask me. We have had many women join us and my wife loved it and loves Why men cuckold.

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My wife and I have been doing this for over 25 years. We love each other to death and never considered divorce, or ever believed we don't ever believe T girl escorts Eskilstuna are not in love. Obviously this is not right for. It may Senior dating agency Sweeden Vallentuna against many peoples religious or social beliefs, or maybe just the fear that family or friends may discover your activities and be judgemental.